New Baby Visitor's Guide

Planning to visit someone who just had a baby?  Here's what you need to know to be the absolute best visitor they've ever had.

1--Don't expect to see the baby in the first week or two.  Wait for an actual invite.
As excited as they are for everyone to see the baby, they also need a little time and space to recover.

2--BRING FOOD!!!  
 Please, please, please!  Breastfeeding mamas are especially hungry and meal preparation is difficult with a newborn.  Feeding the family is one of the most helpful and loving things you can do.

3--Wash your hands as soon as you arrive. 

4--Ask the parents how you can help. 
If possible, make a specific suggestion.  "Do you need anything from the store?"  "Can I empty your dishwasher?"  "Can I take your other child/ren to the park or on a playdate?"

5--Keep it SHORT.  About an hour to an hour and a half, depending on the situation. 

6--Be POSITIVE. 
Remember most new parents are sleep deprived and particularly vulnerable.  So, keep your opinions and any contradictory parenting advice to yourself.  Offer encouragement and support.